Sarnath |
Renunciation
We should not think of the idea of renunciation
to be the need to escape samsara and run away from it. What is it then? In this
world, whether we are politicians, tradesmen, householders, followers of
religions with our views and tenets, or however we might think, there are
diverse ways of performing activities in a human’s life. Nevertheless, whatever
kind of task we carry out, we should always do it according to our ability.
If we think carefully on this matter at an
appropriate level, we can understand it. Based on this reflection, we have
methods which will enable us to decrease the suffering of both body and mind.
Generally speaking, whatever work we do, we encounter hardships because we
place very great attachment, hopes and aims on our tasks. When we are working,
if we are not able to attain these predetermined hopes and aims, additional
suffering is generated. If we carry out an activity adequately, with
appropriate hopes and aims, and without great attachment, that many hardships
will not be able to arise in us. This we know based on our own experience, and
it is also taught within our religion.
For example: Within Buddhism, there are many
types of Dharma practitioners. “Because I am a Buddhist practitioner, I must be
different than others”; with this kind of motivation in mind one thinks that
great goals must be achieved. To practice, to study the views and tenets and to
meditate based on such hopes, we will not be able to fulfill our wishes. If we
have great hopes, our practice will be weak, and if we are not moderate with
our hopes and wishes, our mind will become unhappy. Instead of gaining benefit
through Dharma, a lot of harm will be caused. Everyone has that experience- As
shown in the previous example, regardless of the activity we do, if we work
according to our ability, I have confidence that hardships will decrease. For
that reason, it is important to believe in oneself(i.e. to be self-confident),
and it is difficult to believe in others. Just as we initially have confidence,
affection and kindness for ourselves, it is also good to be able to lead that
loving mind on the sublime path. Everyone has a caring mind. However, even if
we understand what is necessary to benefit and treat ourselves affectionately,
it is a mistake if we do not apply it properly. It is crucial that a sincere
wish and its application go hand in hand.
The particular quality of human beings that
distinguishes them from other beings like animals, is the ability to accomplish
activities that generate vast and extraordinary benefits. Even when considering
evil actions, a single person has the ability to destroy the whole world. Due
to that we should not use that human power in a perverted way, but use it
properly. If, on a daily basis and for as long as they are present, we are able
to transform ill-will, hypocrisy and a mind that deceives others into their
opposites – a good mind, an altruistic mind and the ability to accomplish
sincere proper altruistic activities – there will be a decrease in wars,
hardships and suffering in this world. When we are able to experience that
directly, joy and happiness will become abundant, they will flourish and
expand. There are many different human kinds and attitudes. Yet, whatever our
task is, if we have very strong clinging and immense aims and hopes, unless we
work according to our ability, we will encounter many difficulties. Having
recognized that and having worked appropriately, if the application (or
practice) is also done in a convenient manner, the benefit will be that we will
experience a decrease in hardships. We are all able to walk on such a path. If
we try we will certainly be able to follow it. For that reason, if we
continually work according to our ability then the task is going to flourish.
Why is that? It is because there is also great benefit in accomplishing
individual wishes. However, this is not the case when we hold on to an immense
goal. When we work enormously hard it is difficult to attain our goal. If we
initially have this adequate motivation, the great benefit will be that our
activities themselves will also increase and expand. This is connected to
renunciation. Considering the understanding and recognition of the nature of
samsara, once we undertake a task, suffering is going to decrease, but if we do
not know the nature of samsara well and work too much, there will be many
hardships. Therefore, we should first analyze without mistake the nature of
samsara through reasoning. Once we understand this well, any spiritual and
worldly action we perform can match with our ability. That is the essential
meaning to be understood.
Next, in this second point, while our spiritual
conditions ripen, I will explain the so-called mind of enlightenment.
The mind of enlightenment, bodhicitta, is
commonly known as “altruism.” To give rise to a good mind that benefits others,
first we need to first benefit ourselves and if we are able to improve
ourselves, we will be able to benefit others. Nevertheless, if we cannot
benefit ourselves from the beginning, we will not be able to benefit others.
This being so, one may ask: “what did the Buddha say about Bodhicitta in the
context of those two stages?”
[The Buddha] said that you will not eliminate all
your mental sufferings nor attain genuine joy and happiness if you do not rely
on bodhicitta, a mind that benefits others. It is not easy for an altruistic
mind to be born. No one benefits through “oral compassion” (i.e. talking about
compassion, but not acting). Bodhicitta and genuine love do not mean to
occasionally help helpless people we encounter. The defining characteristic of
an enlightened mind is to abandon the attachment we have for ourselves. As long
as there is this feeling of attachment and love for ourselves, we must also be
able to give it to others, even to our enemies. In order to be accustomed to
that, we should familiarize ourselves with and train a lot in using this
altruistic mind. There are many stories about the ability to sincerely and
truly take the suffering of others upon oneself and to be able to give to
others one’s own happiness. Because this is very important, I am going to
discuss here the purpose of this great strength of mind.
This world is not the only one and sentient
beings are limitless. To be able to eradicate all their sufferings and to bring
them complete happiness, the right motivation and the right practices are
needed. In this regard, one should have neither temporary nor permanent hopes.
If one truly wants to help, one should not wish to attain good results in the
future as a retribution for these acts. In the context of differentiating
bodhicitta, the altruistic mind, I am going to speak about two things:
loving-kindness and compassion.
The loving mind is the feeling we have when we
wish all sentient beings to attain not only happiness, but happiness together
with its causes. This is loving kindness. The compassionate mind is the very
strong feeling we have when we wish all sentient beings to be free from their
physical and mental sufferings together with their causes. This is compassion.
Sometimes such feelings exist, sometimes they do
not, but they always should. Generally, within the great vehicle, it is said
that all sentient beings have been our parents, and because of that there is
great kindness. Therefore the way to generate the enlightened mind is taught
first. However, independently of the fact that all sentient beings have been
our parents or not, in the main practice of bodhicitta it is very important to
be in a certain state of mind which holds that others are more precious than
ourselves. Well then, how should one practice the mind of enlightenment? There
are two stages. The first is the motivation by which one thinks:” I will free
every sentient being from suffering and establish them in the state of complete
happiness.” This is called, “smon pa’i sems”, bodhicitta of aspiration. Through
this alone there is no ultimate benefit and one is not free from suffering. One
needs to actually apply it in order to attain happiness. The thought:”I will
practice this,” is called “jt’tg pa’i sems” – bodhicitta of application.
Therefore, one should train in the loving and compassionate minds. It is a
practice of the great vehicle and it is very important! According to us
Buddhists, if such a basis is missing, there is no chance to study the highest
views and tenets. At the time of practicing these Buddhist views and tenets, we
should follow a sequence. If it is a clear one, then there is an opportunity to
achieve the highest result in a short time. If this is not the case and if we
are not able to follow a real order and practice irregularly, we will not
achieve our aims and the result will not happen.
In our daily lives we need to think as follows.
For example: The so-called “I.” Generally speaking, as soon as we come into
contact with something pleasant, attachment always arises. When we see an
undesirable object, aversion arises. If we do not examine those feelings, they
will remain. Moreover, when we see a stranger we have a neutral feeling. This
is our unexamined, usual and common worldly feeling. This discussion does not
only concern Buddhist scholars and practitioners, but it will benefit anyone
who has great suffering, unhappiness and many hardships in his or her mind.
What makes the mind unhappy? There are two types of discursive thoughts,
attachment and aversion. Generally it is said in Buddhism that there are many
discursive thoughts and amongst them, attachment and aversion, which both cause
great difficulties, are considered to be the root of them all. To give an
example: The root cause of calling a person we do not like “an enemy” and a
person we like “a friend”, is ego-clinging. The “I” is very precious to us.
When we do not agree with someone, we call him an enemy while when we agree, we
call him a friend. All difficulties come based on those two concepts of enemy
and friend. Also, if an unhappy person meets a happy one, both might become
enemies. If an enemy meets my friend, the enemy of that friend might become my
enemy as well, and there will be great suffering. Moreover, if it is his
friend, he also might become an enemy. Enemies and friends will never be
fundamentally exhausted. When we investigate, we find that the root cause of
these concepts of friends and enemies is the so-called “I.” It is therefore
difficult to completely eliminate enemies of the outside world.
An Indian scholar said the following:”I need to
wander around in the world but when all those stones and thorns pierce my
soles, I feel great pain. Because of that, to talk around easily, should I
cover the whole earth with leather? There is not enough leather in the world
for me to carry! Then, what would be the best method? If I carry two small
pieces of leather on both of m soles, it would be similar to covering the whole
world with leather.”
What does this mean? It means that we cannot deal
with all the enemies and friends of the entire world. In that case, what is the
use of fighting with all our enemies and pleasing all our friends? If we
overcome the grasping towards enemies and friends which is based on our
individual minds, it is said that our mind will be happy.